Pretending or Adapting~hmm..
May Allah bless every human beings on HIs earth~
It’s been a long time since i stop publishing any new post, not that i dont have time for this thing but it’s more about searching for a special issue to post. Now i got one, a few weeks back, me n my friends had some interesting discussions on being genuine towards others. Some of us thought that genuineness can be made up, in other words you can pretend to be good infront of others or even pretend that you care (when actually you dont), How does that sound to you? Is that being rude to others or a way we show our respect? or Maybe the word ‘PRETEND’ is wrongly used in this scenario? Maybe it’s the sign of ‘ADAPTATION’? 
I would agree that sometimes we pretend to look like we care just in order to respect the feelings of others, plus, genuineness can be made up but the fake genuineness is no better than the real genuieneness. Have you realized sometimes it all started with pretending, you pretend to be good because you are not good at it, later you dont really have to pretend anymore because you already get used to it. Others will say it shows the power of good pretender..hahaha> maybe~
The main thing i would like to point out is that, from my perspective, people think that they have to pretend to be like someone else in certain situations, later they feel sorry for what they had done because they thought that it is like deceiving others with false personality. Think again, i know personality is something thst is relatively enduring over time and across situations, but dont you think that ability to adapt can be one of your personality traits? I always confused with those two words, after putting some thoughts thru it, i finally figured out, sometimes we tend to misused the word adapting over pretending.
Still~ whatever you do, sincerity and intention will be the guiding line.
